It’s Not Fair!

by Tracey Lanter If I had a nickel for every time I heard one of my children say “it’s not fair” I’d be a wealthy woman. How do I reply to my children when they complain, “It’s not fair”?  Philosophically, with some great wise answer?  Spiritually, with great Biblical truth? No.  Something a little less [...]

Discipline to the Heart

The other day I went to a friend’s house. While our young children organized a My Little Pony rodeo and practiced cow roping on their youngest siblings, my friend and I sat down to chat. We could hear muffled laughter from another part of her house. Her teen was on the phone … with a [...]

Anyone Have a Rooster I can Borrow?

by Ginger Plowman Editor’s note:  This week Ginger Plowman has been a guest on our daily radio program, FamilyLife Today, and has been speaking about “Disciplining With Love.”  We asked Ginger to write a couple of guest posts for FamilyLife MomBlog, and it has been our pleasure to introduce you to her and Preparing the [...]

The Importance of Beginning Well

I love newborns: their sweet smell, their soft skin, their bright eyes trying to take in the wonder of the new world.  It’s delightful and delicious and is touched by the holy. It is also momentous and sobering when new moms are handed that tiny person who is so utterly dependent on them. This new [...]

Sorry About That, My Child Really is “Special”

Have I ever mentioned that I am a speech-language pathologist? Before I got married, I worked with preschoolers with special needs. I had ideas about discipline: Keep the mental age in mind. Structure, repetition, and consistency are a must. Use different types of cues—visual, tactile, verbal. I still think these are the core to good [...]

Tween Beast Revealed

Whine, whine, whine—like fingernails down a chalk board to a mom! Just realize, ladies, once you get that one figured out, there’s more fun on the mothering horizon. When my children were young I remember being told, “Just wait until they get older, then you’ll get a whole new set of problems.” At the time [...]

What They Need

by Janel Breitenstein “Do you want a sippy cup?” “Do you need a ride?” “Do you need money?” “Need a hug?” “Want a cookie?” “Did you pack underwear?” “Did you brush?” “Did you flush?” “Did you wash your hands?” “Are you scared?” “Are you okay?” Can you believe the amount of time, energy, and resources [...]

R-E-S-P-E-C-T !

by Korie Bee Respect has become something of an issue between my seven-year-old son and myself as of late. It seems from the time I drop him off at school to the time he gets back into the car eight hours later he forgets what it means to talk to his mother using a respectful [...]

Hot-Headed Momma

Editor’s note: Today Ginger Plowman is a guest on our daily radio program, FamilyLife Today, and will be speaking about “Disciplining With Love.” We asked Ginger to write a guest post for FamilyLife MomBlog and it is our pleasure to introduce you to her and Preparing the Way Ministries. by Ginger Plowman Have I ever [...]

Manners Love

When I was in college I associated the word “manners” with other words like stodgy, inauthentic. Now that I have kids, I associate it with different words: gracious, loving. From a selfish viewpoint, I can’t believe how much better kids with manners are treated! When they look people in the eye, respond when people talk [...]