Tears of Pain. Tears of Joy.

My sweet friend and I embraced and crumbled into tears. It took awhile for her to get there, but after our lengthy conversation about the suicide attempt of her teenage daughter, the relief flooded through her eyes. We embraced and wept. My tears for her were tears of sadness and pain. Yet earlier that very [...]

The Nerve — !

I’m a big chicken. You might, like me, be one of those moms who has a whole lot going on right now. But you’re kind of shocked at the nerve of some people who ask you to do certain things in spite of your children, your commitments, your obvious exhaustion. (They may be in your own [...]

Sleep-Deprived Mom

by Tracey Lanter Hubby was out of town, I was propped up in bed reading The Five Love Languages of Teenagers, by Gary Chapman. My son was already asleep, and my daughter came into my room holding a pillow and smiling with a “Please, can I?” look on her face. I was exhausted from a [...]

Exchanging My Slippers for Pumps

by Julia DesCarpentrie Almost nine years ago, I began a new career as a stay-at-home mom.  Within six months I was ready to hang up my spit-up laden apron and fuzzy slippers to return to the office.  Then I found out that baby number two was on the way and so I resigned myself to one of [...]

From Pain to Perspective

by Susan Yates I’ve had a rough couple of days. A girlfriend of many years said some really hurtful things to me which totally took me by surprise. I was so caught off guard that I haven’t known how to respond and I’ve replayed our relationship over and over in my mind wondering what I’ve [...]

Mothers Need Naps, Too

by Jennifer Dyer For most of my life, I've been a high achiever. I've made goals and stuck to them. Things have not always worked out as I planned, but I don't recall anyone accusing me of being lazy. Motherhood has thrown me for a loop, though. I've had some health issues during the last few years [...]

Epic Fail Lunch Date

by Tracey Lanter As I saw them enter the restaurant and take their seats I thought, Oh, how sweet. A mother taking her young son out on a lunch date! A few moments later I glanced over at the table and his mouth was agape, his eyes were glazed over and affixed to a six-by-four-inch [...]

Kris Allen, American Idol, and Humility

by Barbara Rainey When my children were growing up I was a TV Nazi. High control, off the charts. Only “Little House on the Prairie” and “Mr. Rogers Neighborhood“ were allowed when they were small. As they became older they watched sporting events or news features with their dad if they were interested, but little else. As parents [...]

Wise Words from the Valley of Loss

by Barbara Rainey The crisis of delivering her 14-week stillborn infant is over.  They named him Micah William and he will be buried tomorrow, May 19, next to his sister, Molly.  It was a difficult ordeal for my daughter Rebecca, as it was for her husband, Jacob, and me.  But as we could only watch and pray, our pain was [...]

Spring Break Nearly Broke Me — Traveling with a Special Needs Child

by Jennifer Dyer Since the birth of Rachel and her subsequent diagnosis with autism, vacations have taken on a new meaning. Traveling with children always resembles a circus with the parade of blankies and stuffed animals, and a youngster who packs one change of underwear and ten pairs of shoes, but adding a child with special [...]