My Adult Children

“Lord, teach me how to pray for my adult children. I know You are greater than anything they face. Thank You that my prayers for them have power because You hear me and will answer. I pray You will guide and protect them and help them to become all they were created to be.” Stormie [...]

The Silly Solution to Angry Kids

I think it’s safe to say he was mad. The subject: making him do his homework. His take: You don’t want me to be happy! You don’t even want me to be your son! As you can tell, the threshold of five-year-old irrationality had already been steamrolled at this point. He was teary and red-faced [...]

Getting Ready for School …

Some mornings, everything falls into place. Others, not so much. Yet each morning, I get up and hope for the best. This morning seemed to be moving along better than most, especially since my parents are still here helping me recover from my cancer surgery. My incision wasn’t hurting too much, so I hobbled up [...]

I Can Be a Picky Wife

It happened again. I was simply sitting with a cup of tea as I began to think about my husband. I wish he’d appreciate me just a little bit, I said to myself. He didn’t even notice what I did in the house today. And that one thing I asked him to do last week, he [...]

Heaven is Like Grandma’s

My little girl spent the night at Grandma’s this week, which very well may be her favorite place in the entire world. She ate waffles for breakfast and got to watch Clifford and Curious George. Tonight, she asked, “Mom, can I wake up at Grandma’s?” This evening, I’d been contemplating challenging things: friends fighting valiantly [...]

A Little Marital Weed-Killing

Huh. Easier said than done. This year, the kids are out there “helping” me, which can occasionally mean two steps forward and one step back, but at least that means two to six more chubby hands pulling weeds. (“No! Not that one!”) I mean, do any of you know boys who can resist dirt, digging, and [...]

The Prodigal God

Getting together with other women over coffee, food, and Bible study is so much fun! For the past two years, I have been going to this Bible study with 15–20 women from my church. It is a great study, and I love the variety in the ages of women there and the wisdom they all have to [...]

God Amidst the Chaos of Cancer

Just after my doctor called with the results that I had a malignant tumor, my life hit a strange pace. It was as if everything slowed down yet sped up at the same time. I had a million things to get done before surgery, and my emotions were running amuck; yet I was able to [...]

Brothers Because of Love

I was eavesdropping. I confess. My boys were having a discussion that was quickly escalating. My youngest was asking his older brother to just ignore someone asking if they were brothers and where my youngest “came from.” They are of different ethnicities but are brothers in every other way. They trash their room together, argue, giggle, scheme, wrestle, occasionally play [...]

Family Movie Night and Creating New Traditions

Sometimes in life, things happen and you have no control over them. Sometimes they can be good and sometimes … well … they can be not so good. When this happens, you don’t always get to choose what you think would be best for your family. Sometimes you just get to pick up the pieces that are left over [...]