Recovering from Surgery and Serious Illness … as a Mom

As most of you know, I was diagnosed with cancer recently and had surgery to remove the affected area. As I usually do, I made the mistake of thinking I could carry on as usual and continue to be super mom, with just a few requests for helping to get my kids to school. The [...]

Bayer

I heard a new Bayer aspirin commercial the other day. It said,“You always took care of your children. Now it’s time to take care of yourself.” The woman in the ad was like me, a member of the boomer generation, likely an empty nester. And Bayer is right. It is time to take care of ourselves so [...]

The Perfect Parent

Sporting a spanking stick in her left pocket and a frown on her brow, my usually happy-go-lucky friend asked, “Aren’t you afraid your children will grow up to rebel?” She had just come out of the back room, disciplining her child for about the seventh time during my visit. You know when the Bible says [...]

Rejoicing in the Empty Nest

I just talked to my daughter. Ashley has five — count them — five boys! They are all 10 and under. She was telling me today how tired she is. Bless her. I listened and tried to encourage her. I remember so well how she feels, and I told her so. It doesn’t take away her fatigue, but hopefully it does make her feel [...]

How to Find Your Purpose When Kids Leave Home

So many of you have graduating seniors this year, or your kids will be graduating very soon. Your next new adventure, the empty nest, is beginning. Do you have a plan for this next season of life? What will you do with your time? Our video question this week is just for you. Barbara answers [...]

My MomLife

MomLife … is a word that has described my existence for the last 21 years. I’m excited to be joining the MomLife Today group of bloggers. As a recent transplant to Little Rock, I’m just getting to know these amazing women. I’m also thrilled to connect with you — ordinary moms who have good days, bad [...]

Family Reunions and Kids

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Is an extended family gathering on your calendar for this summer? Most of these events are planned by middle agers who want their kids and grandkids to know their cousins, aunts, and uncles. That was the situation last summer for a young friend of mine, her husband, and their children. Their family loaded up all the gear for [...]

Two Father’s Day Heroes: My Father and Hubby

For many of us, our fathers were the first heroes in our lives. And for some who didn’t have that experience, the pain lingers and can be life-changing. Even as an adult with my own family, my father is still an important figure in my life. As much as I love my dad, my recent [...]

She’s Really Not Coming Home

Our youngest just completed her one year post-college internship. For months, she’s been talking to us about where she will live and what she wants to do when she is on her own full-time. We’ve listened, encouraged, coached, and given some advice when asked on resumes and interviews. For a while, she vacillated as to where she would [...]

Teaching Our Children to Honor Their Father

Father’s Day was approaching, and we had gathered with several families we know well to celebrate the fathers together. We’ve had a longstanding tradition to take a few minutes and go around the room and let each child tell something they appreciate about his or her daddy. But this time, my stomach was in knots. My friend [...]