This is How I Want to Celebrate Mother’s Day!

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I was 27 years old.  The room was freshly painted.  The crib set up. Clothes neatly folded. Anticipation.  Waiting. Waiting.  She was late.  2 weeks late!  She finally came.  I was amazed as I stared at her newborn face.  The way her lashes laid on her cheeks when she slept.  Her wisps of thin blond [...]

The 10 Habits of Happy Mothers

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Yesterday, Jenae shared with us about the times she has felt like a failure as a mom. Judging by the response, that message resonated with a lot of moms (I know it resonated with me!).  And maybe it’s the ‘red car’ effect (you buy a red car and start seeing red cars everywhere you turn), [...]

A Woman of Style and Substance?

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About a year ago I started receiving a magazine “for women of style and substance.”  I think that might be code for women over 40.  Although I’m over 40 and my name and address are on each edition I receive, for quite some time I’ve felt it must be a mistake.  I might be considered [...]

Pray Through It All

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While I was writing my memoir, Once Upon A Child, I recounted many moments I had as a little girl that have shaped my thought process as an adult. For example, I was a very strong-willed little person who loved challenges. I wanted to learn how to ride a bicycle without training wheels when my [...]

28 Ways to Connect with God

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We’ve all been there: those “I Know This Is My Quiet Time But My Brain/To-Do List/Kid Feels Very LOUD” moments. There’s that desire… which on days like these, can start to feel like pressure… to have pacified souls like Mary though our lives are shouting, full of Martha demands. So here are a few suggestions [...]

Find Healing After Abortion

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    I had a chance to watch October Baby with my family and I have to say I loved the movie! It’s about a young woman who discovers that she was adopted–but more than that, that she survived an abortion attempt by her birth mother. It’s an impacting, moving story. It’s told well, and [...]

Choosing Joy

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February 23rd marked 15 years since that dreaded knock on the door that changed our lives forever.  I can remember it like it was yesterday, but I long to forget it.

Helping a Friend Through Pregnancy Loss or Grief

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Three years into our marriage, my husband and I lost our firstborn, a daughter we named Molly Ann, to a rare brain aneurism that we didn’t know about until she was born at 41 weeks.  She lived a week and touched more lives than most do in a lifetime.  Eleven months later we gave birth [...]

How I Taught my Family to Love

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It has been ten years since the day I taught my family how to love … and they never forgot it. You see I was weeks from delivering my third child and my belly was a big as a barn. It was becoming more and more difficult to pick up around the house, especially going [...]

HIS Way… Not Mine (part 2)

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I am finding that God is always at work, caring for each detail of my life. Putting into place things I could not have fathomed. I am learning that God knows all and is putting things in place according to His plan, even years in advance. Read Part 1 Here Nineteen years ago, I gave [...]