Seasons

Spring

The last few months have been a little hard for me. My kids are both in college and involved in more things. My schedule has changed from revolving around school, meals, and children, to being alone much of the day. It is a hard transition for me. I miss my kids. I miss the structure. [...]

College Freshman Warning

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If you read the title of this post and got here quick to see what calamity might befall your precious college freshman, the warning is for you not your child! The tips listed below are for you! There are many emotions that have hurled through my heart and head over the last few weeks. Excitement [...]

Father Love

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Sweet memories tumble through my head and slowly spill out of my eyes as salty tears. It was supposed to be just another one of my daily walks through the nearby lush green park, but it ended up being a walk down memory lane. I saw her running through the playground, her dark hair that [...]

Graduation Thoughts for All of Us

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Do you have a graduate in your family? If not, I imagine you have received an announcement or two in the mail from someone who is marking this transition in life. May and June are booked annually with academic graduations of all kinds. From the newly-popular kindergarten graduations to the traditional ceremonies marking the end of high school, college, [...]

Phases of the Empty Nest

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My friend Julia and I met for coffee to catch up on each other’s lives. We’re both Empty Nesters. My five kids are all married, and I have nineteen grandchildren. Julia has two kids, one in college and one just out — adjusting to real life! As a single parent, Julia has raised her kids [...]

Being Normal

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I received a note from a good friend who is reading the book Susan Yates and I wrote, “Barbara and Susan’s Guide to the Empty Nest.” She wrote, “Read more of the book last night and am so glad I did. I really drank in the chapter on loneliness. Between ministry and life stages I was so comforted [...]

How to Find Your Purpose When Kids Leave Home

So many of you have graduating seniors this year, or your kids will be graduating very soon. Your next new adventure, the empty nest, is beginning. Do you have a plan for this next season of life? What will you do with your time? Our video question this week is just for you. Barbara answers [...]

My Adult Children

“Lord, teach me how to pray for my adult children. I know You are greater than anything they face. Thank You that my prayers for them have power because You hear me and will answer. I pray You will guide and protect them and help them to become all they were created to be.” Stormie [...]

Cross-Cultural Empty Nesting

The empty nest isn’t just an American phenomenon. Today I met with a group of empty nest friends in Nairobi, Kenya. As I shared some of the discoveries that Barbara and I made in writing our book, I wondered if these women would identify with what we found or if the cultural experiences would be [...]

I Understand

My daughter Ashley has five, count them, FIVE BOYS! They are all eight and under. She was recently telling me how tired she always seems to be. Bless her. I listened and tried to encourage her. I remember so well feeling how she feels and I told her so. It doesn’t take away her fatigue [...]