What Your Husband REALLY Needs!

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There are books written on the subject, there are even amazing posts written on the subject of how to inspire your husband.  And while all of these useful, informative words and suggestions are most helpful and appreciated – I also know it can leave us, as wives, feeling overwhelmed and like we are not doing [...]

What’s In a Name?

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My toes are hurting something fierce! I just read in Annie Chapman’s book “The Mother-in-Law Dance” the dilemma that some daughters-in-law have about what to call their “in-laws.” Should it be “Mom,” “Dad,” their legal name, something else?  The “what name” question can become a challenge in an honest desire to cultivate an enjoyable relationship [...]

My Prince Charming Wears Combat Boots

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by Valerie Gaff  When I was 9, I knew exactly what my wedding should be like.  I wanted a beautiful white dress, with a train as long as Princess Diana’s.  There would be flowers everywhere, and I would be surrounded by my family and friends.  Since I already knew all the details, I just needed [...]

Are You Having Super Sex?

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Or are you sick of sex? I am sick of the enemy deceiving those I love.  I take it personally and frankly am not going to take it anymore. At church, marriage conferences and even with my relatives I am seeing that women are bored, tired, and unconcerned with continuing to pursue growth in sexual [...]

A Formula for Intimacy

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“We’re going to enter the Guinness Book of World Records for the most people kissing passionately for five seconds at the same time,” said MomLife Today’s creator Tracey Eyster to an audience.

Will You be My Friend?

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Remember the notes when you were a child? Will you be my friend? Circle one: Yes or No Ah, if only it were that simple now.

Forgiveness is a Family Matter

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Recently, I read an intriguing book, “Tombstones and Banana Trees” by Medad Birungi. The premise of the book resides in the author’s journey of forgiveness within his family. A good yet tough read as you visualize the insanity of how broken people inflict harm on relationships. The chaos marked the young boy. The family list [...]

A Valentine’s Day Kissing Challenge

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Today, I’m cozied up by the fire writing about what kind of kissing teen girls should reserve for marriage and why. It reminded me of A Kissing Challenge I offered to teens years ago to save that first kiss for as long as they could—maybe for marriage! But what good would the saving be, if [...]

Gathering Shells and Knitting Hearts

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As I walked along the beach my eyes were continually drawn to the ocean waves lapping against the shore.  I couldn’t help grinning as the incoming waves tickled my toes at the water’s edge.   The bubbly ebb and flow of the salt water was cool and refreshing… much like the 48 hours I shared with [...]

Slow Growing Roots

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I lived in the same small Midwestern town throughout my entire childhood.  After having our first child, my husband and I decided we wanted to raise our children in the same hometown, close to grandparents.  We had both attended the same church that my parents brought me to as a newborn.  I knew everyone in [...]