62 Things to Say to Make Your Husband Feel Great

62 Things to Say to Make Your Husband Feel Great

1. Thanks for doing that. It means a lot to me when you serve me in little ways like that. 2. I am such a different woman because of the way you _____ (love me, gently lead me, make me feel secure, etc.). 3. I know you and I haven’t been seeing eye-to-eye lately. But [...]

A Wise Woman Builds her Home…

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A while back one of my sweet friends complained her husband had ruined something while doing housework—and he heard all about it. Several times. My first response was, “He does housework?” I’ve been around the sun more than a few times and I’ve heard more wives than you can imagine complain about their husbands. Sad [...]

Sex Without Walls: 6 Steps to Rebuilding Your Intimate Life

6 Steps to Rebuilding Our Initmate Life

  A friend with a steamy married life (but not without conflict), recently remarked that our late 30s through our 50s should be the sexual peak of our lives. “What? Aren’t the early 20s the best time for that?” Yet, as I hadn’t been married in my early 20s, I couldn’t say. She went on [...]

Chillin’ with My Husband: Time for a Plan

Time for a Plan

It was time: My husband and I took a night away just before the new year. We needed to pray, to plan, to think—both alone and together. We needed to reevaluate and gather vision for so many things—in parenting, in our work here in Uganda, in our relationships, in our marriage. I found myself wishing [...]

Letting Your Husband Lead

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I have to say it wasn’t always easy for me to let John lead. When he and I married in 1990, I was a single mom of a little boy. I was used to making all the rules, so allowing John to lead was really a struggle. I wanted to set Cory’s bedtime. I wanted [...]

Men Stepping Up – Super Bowl Saturday

Stepping Up Super Saturday // A  One day video event for the man in your life!

Last spring at MomLife Boot Camp we had an amazing time of teaching that was above and beyond all we could have ever hoped for or imagined! Go God! All the moms in attendance were positively giddy due to the fun, fellowship, bonding, and beauty of our surroundings at Pine Cove. Excitement was in the air, [...]

God’s Choice for Me: The #1 Hot Item!

Have you ever really wanted to buy something that was in scarce supply? One Christmas we wanted to buy the up-and-coming video gaming system for our family. My husband and son ran to the store to get one and were informed that the person right before them purchased the last one. The person who got [...]

How To Keep Your Husband Looking At You–and Only You!

How To Keep Your Husband Looking At You... and Only You!

Ever since Shaunti Feldhahn ripped the security blindfolds from our eyes in For Women Only, we’ve been wondering what to do about the fact that our husbands are wired to be visual. She explained to us why it’s so natural for men to look and even why it’s so hard for them to forget what [...]

Trash Talking

Trash talking should have no place in your home // A post for Step Moms from momlifetoday.com

I once had a stepmom say to me, “You know, every time I go to my stepson’s baseball game the biological mom makes it very obvious that she does not want me there, that she doesn’t think I belong there.  She storms around the field, and it makes it very uncomfortable for my stepsons.” I [...]

But I Was Their Mom First!

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Two years ago I was a divorced single mama of two amazing kiddos. I had a pretty good network of family and friends but I was mainly on my own. My kids and I were a team of three. Then, I met my husband (insert choirs of angels singing because yes, against all my disbelief [...]