What’s In a Name?

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My toes are hurting something fierce! I just read in Annie Chapman’s book “The Mother-in-Law Dance” the dilemma that some daughters-in-law have about what to call their “in-laws.” Should it be “Mom,” “Dad,” their legal name, something else?  The “what name” question can become a challenge in an honest desire to cultivate an enjoyable relationship [...]

Forgiveness is a Family Matter

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Recently, I read an intriguing book, “Tombstones and Banana Trees” by Medad Birungi. The premise of the book resides in the author’s journey of forgiveness within his family. A good yet tough read as you visualize the insanity of how broken people inflict harm on relationships. The chaos marked the young boy. The family list [...]

Holidays with Parents and In-laws: Let it be Good

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You’re into preparation mode-shopping, cooking, invitations, fundraisers, junk mail, Christmas cards, special parties. And this is above and beyond the regular stuff on your plate- sports teams, concerts, work deadlines, homework help and then there’s the unexpected- a child’s broken leg, another ear infection, a friend in crisis. But for many there’s another source of [...]

How to Be a Great Mother-in-Law

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A great mother-in-law?? Okay, most days, I’d settle for just being a good one or even simply not messing up a relationship too badly. I’ve been a mother-in-law for 17 years now. We have five kids — three daughters and two sons. All of them are married, so I have both sons- and daughters-in-law. And the things [...]

Bethany Hamilton Talks About How she stays close with her Mom

How to Connect with Your Mom Over Time and Distance

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How do you connect with your mom once you’re all grown up with a busy family of your own? (I’m still waiting to feel grown up, and I’m 35.) Until just recently, I’ve always lived less than 30 miles away from my mom. She’s always been there for me when I needed her. This past [...]

Too Much Family?

by Tracey Lanter The other day I asked a friend if she had fun on her summer vacation. She gave me a resounding ‘yes’ accompanied by a big smile and a brief description of her vacation spent with extended family, but then she added, “a little too much time with family” and I gave her [...]

Was it Fatigue?

Last week I spent the afternoon running errands. I had a long list of the usuals:  groceries, returns, an appointment, a stop in the garden center for pine straw mulch, and lots more. It’s just turned hot here in the south and so I was in and out of air conditioning all afternoon. The heat [...]